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Thirty-five grand! Yes, that’s right, the average Mid-Atlantic couple is expected to spend around $35,000 for their wedding, according to www.TheWeddingReport.com.

Although a huge investment, it’s only the average. Many brides actually achieve platinum-wedding status with wedding budgets exceeding $100,000.

A wedding is typically the most expensive party of a couple’s life because most brides have been planning their perfect wedding since childhood. Little girls are socialized to play dress up as brides and admire princesses, such as Cinderella, who have lavish weddings and horse-drawn carriages.

Not that there’s anything wrong with a fairy tale wedding, if you can afford it. However, many couples fall victim to the desire of keeping up with the Joneses and end up starting their life together in debt, courtesy of Visa and MasterCard. It’s important to create a realistic wedding budget together, and then stick to it.

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On average, a couple will spend about fifty percent of their wedding budget at the reception. A typical wedding reception will usually accommodate 150 to 200 guests. Couples must consider what style of reception to have. Do they want buffet, plated dinner, or heavy hors d’oeuvres? All of these choices play a part in the wedding budget.

The wedding category is one of the last recession-proof industries around. I’ve heard wedding professionals say, “You’re about to spend more money than you have ever spent on things that you have never bought before.”

Wow, with a mantra like that, Read the rest of this entry »

“You guide me home. You are my home…I started dreaming about the kind of man that I would marry someone who would love me for myself and not my name.” A survey my B&C family…what’s your favorite moment in the wedding ceremony and why?…



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Wedding plans have you made yours yet. Are you to be a spring bride, if so then you need to get things rolling “now” to avoid any last minute hiccups that could spoil your wedding day? You need to be “organized,” if not, then “prepared” being the more appropriate word to use for the worst happening. When making wedding plans keep in mind that “two heads are better than one.” Having someone at your side along way can help tremendously in the way of coming up with ideas and to help lighten the load. This can be a stressful time for the future bride, however by knowing the things you want and how to go about getting them will have you avoid hours of bridal mayhem. Make sure to involve your future husband with all wedding plans so he has the opportunity to contribute or have his say.

It doesn`t matter how precise you are you can bet something will go belly up on the day. Even the wedding experts can get it wrong sometimes. It only takes the slightest little thing to spoil what may have taken you a year or two to plan, if not longer. Typical mishaps like forgetting to inform the chauffeur where the church service is to be held or mislaying the wedding rings are a couple to mention. If you finalize particular wedding tasks early enough then you`re half way there in having a mishap carefree day.

Drawing up a wedding-to-do-list should be your top priority. Put a date in your diary to meet up with them who you have allotted a particular wedding duty to carry out. Keep these meetings regular so you know where you`re up to with the wedding tasks. What`s been accomplished can be ticked off your wedding-to-do-list. The more ticks there is the fewer headaches. Duties for wedding helpers might include ordering the flowers, baking the wedding cake, sending out invitations down to booking the minister for the wedding ceremony. Let the happiest day of your life stay that way by planning ahead.

The content bride will always look the prettiest on the day more than that of a miserable looking bride.

By highlighting some vital wedding issues will help you get yourself in order to achieve the perfect wedding. If you experience difficulty in planning your wedding, then in all due respect it maybe down to you that is making it difficult. You need to relax and take time out to think and not rush.

There are a lot of steps you will need to take when planning a wedding but taking one step at a time is the answer. Taking too much on at once can cause problems and cause you unnecessary stress. When planning a wedding, you need to make detail planning of the program. Let us begin with the wedding reception, some couples dedicate more of their time to this part of their wedding than any other part of the wedding events. You need to make sure that the venue hall is an ideal size for accommodating all your guests. Estimating the number of guests coming at this stage is not good, it is best to have exact numbers if it is a sit down meal because you could end up spending over the odds. Planning the reception should have you include and allow for the catering, decorations and entertainment.

Involve yourself with the catering and by doing this you get to check the menu with your caterer and change things as you go along. Wedding entertainment like hiring a disco DJ or live band is fabulous for getting people in the mood for dancing.

If you have to much on your plate and have no time to involve yourself with the catering then you will need to get a final head count for any meals to be served concerning your wedding to your caterer. This count should include the wedding photographer and coordinator as well as your wedding entertainment members, such as the DJ, muscians or singers.

When planning a wedding it is favourable to have wedding favors. The more unique the wedding favour the more it excites the guest. Send wedding invitations early so your guest will have time to prepare themselves for your special day. Your guest may have book a day off work, buy a new outfit or arrange for a baby sitter so it is important to send wedding invites at least 12 weeks in advance.

Wedding tips

1 Whether your hair stylist is calling to your home or you are to visit the hair salon, remember to wear loose clothing especially round the neck. After your hair has be styled in the fashion you want you don`t want to spoil it when removing any garments. A blouse is more ideal with a button down front.

2 If the bridal gown is designed for going over the head then place a pillow case or petticoat over first to prevent any lipstick/mascara smudges getting on the dress. It will also allow the dress to glide over the head without tossing your hair.

3 Don`t forget to remove the price tags from the soles off the shoes. This is easily overlooked and can go unnoticed; however not by the people in the church.

4 We all know children are easily bored and “will” get up to mischief at the drop of hat so if possible for the bridal dressing have a separate room for the kiddies to play and an adult to keep them in check. If the flower girls/bridesmaids are of toddler age – dress them last.

5 Keep beverages (coffee tea blackcurrant juice) at a distance if the wedding dress is fitted. Assist young children when thirsty by guiding the drinking cup to their mouth. Spillage is a spoiler.

6 Call the best man on the morning of your wedding day to make sure the groom did arrived home safe from the night before (stag do,) and at the same time ask him if he has the wedding bands. Men have been known to walk up the aisle without socks so keep this in mind.

7 The man`s buttonhole is traditionally worn on the left lapel, of course personal preference prevails. Have someone help the men pin their buttonholes because it is nothing new to see a beautiful displayed corsage – displayed upside down.

8 Don`t write your speech down on a scrap of paper because it`s easy to think it rubbish and gets thrown out. Nerves can have you say things that people may not want to hear so be careful with choice of words. Read your speech back as many times as it takes for you to be satisfied.

Wedding reminders for the to-do-list

Wedding ceremony location

Wedding programs, pew bows, chapel flowers, unity and taper candles

Marriage license and the officiate fees.

Useful pieces to have at your side – scotch tape for the gift table, a guest book and pen.

Have a basket for placing money envelopes in.

Don`t forget the silver knife for cutting the wedding cake

Glasses for the wedding toast.

Have a medical/emergency kit close by which should contain, make up and hair spray along with personal feminine items if needed. Other bits are Q-tips, facial tissues, aspirin or Tylenol. The list is endless so you could find yourself packing a case instead of a box. You need to know when to stop, mind you what about a nail file and clear nail polish, a stapler and safety pins, “see what I mean,” oh and spare panty hose.

Why not make your special day special for everyone else too. You can do this by giving your guests a unique wedding favor.

Wedding favors are given as a way to say “Thank You” to the wedding guests, – and if the perfect favor is given then you will have very thankful guests.

Wedding favors Ideas

Cookies and Chocolates

Crystal

Guest books

Glass coasters

Photo Album

Silver Items

Bath sets

Unity candles

Check on your wedding plans regular to avoid last minute hiccups.

Should a problem rise on your wedding day then meet it head on with plan B.? You do have one don`t you. It is in your best interest to have back up. For instance if the photographer gets stuck in a traffic jam, then have a camcorder in the car. If the caterer has faulted and burnt the wedding breakfast, then have a pizza house number on your personal, or if the groom doesn`t turn up then settle for the better man i.e. “best” man. All joking aside it is important to have your standby props.

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marriage Public Records Marriage   A simple way to get your wedding Records

Marriage is one of the greatest moments in the life of any person other than birth and death. It is also one of the great occasions when the person has any input or say in the matter.

However, according to statistics, almost 50% of all marriages in America end in divorce, that will make this joyous occasion in a bitter memory that participants will have an impact not only economic but also emotional for a long time.

That said, public marriage records are considered an integral part of public records and that means we are for the most part, available to all citizens, provided that the proper channels and procedures observed. Such records are essential when working on a history project of the community or any genealogy research, as well as searching the history of any new partner is possible.

Marriage certificates are stored locally at the offices of state government or local repositories, together with documents birth certificates and death.

Some of the information contained in the records of marriage are:

• Personal information of participants in the marriage
• The personal information of parents of participants and witnesses
• Name of the judge who conducted the marriage

Whenever a person must have access to a marriage certificate, he or she can visit your local government office where you store these documents. If the person lives out of state, then the best way to do this and also the most economical is the use of Internet.

Some companies collect, organize and maintain this information and usually charge a minimal fee to access it. These records are very well organized and maintained to date which means that you do this quest once and get all the information you need.

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Splitting up with a woman is a tough thing for many men to handle. While you would like to move on, you probably still have strong feelings for this one particular woman. Now if you’re constantly thinking of your ex-girlfriend, then pay very close attention. In this article, I should reveal my proved step by step system to help you get your girlfriend back.

So if you’re secretly longing for a lost love, then try to implement this technique into your life :

Step 1- Research what went wrong

Now the most important thing to do before you try to get your girlfriend back is to take a little time and think about what went wrong. For instance you should ask :

*Is there another guy?

*Does she no longer like you in a romantic way?

*Has there been a dramatic change in her life?

*Are you doing certain things which drive her crazy?

The reason why you ask these questions is to ascertain if things are fixable between you and your ex-girlfriend. If she’s’s with another guy or was oppressive about the break-up, then you have little risk of getting her back.

So before you implement this system, you must first discover if you have a possibility of succeeding.

Step 2- Change yourself

Once you’ve analyzed what went wrong, you want to implement changes to your life. The actual reason guys get dumped is due to a lack of attraction. So if you want to get her back, you may make refined changes to oneself which demonstrates interesting qualities.

Now the explanation girls wish to date other guys is these men provide excitement in their lives. Without even knowing it, you almost certainly developed a pattern of wussiness with your ex-girlfriend.

In order to become an attractive to your ex-girlfriend, you want to develop tasty personalities. This includes gentlemanly characteristics like confidence, initiative, an engaging personality and resolution. If you’re able to show these core character characteristics, then you will have the interesting personality which ALL ladies want.

Step 3- Start to date other ladies

It would seem counter-intuitive, but dating other women is a good way to get a girlfriend back. Now it’s tough to explain, but girls have a crazy logic. They are highly interested in guys who are “preselected” by other women. By dating other women, you’ll be able to kick off her jealous reactions.

Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back: Here is a complete guide to Get your ex back without breaking a single drop of sweat.

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Jan
31

My Wedding Planner: A Record Book

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Fridge magnets – a popular kitchen accessory is to reach great heights with new innovations that are being used as wedding magnet. One might wonder how this little item could have any relevance for a wedding.

Here are some of the latest trends in the use of fridge magnets for weddings:

1) People are always on the look of unique ideas – something that will stay in the minds of friends and family. In pursuing this objective, fridge magnets today are used as wedding invitations. Could be a better way to have your wedding invitation stuck on the refrigerator – a place that is constantly watched by all family members.

Creating them is fun. You can get a picture of something relevant to the theme of your wedding, and of course the bride and groom names and wedding date. Definitely not be able to have all the wedding information included in this small magnet, but may have the most important details as mentioned above.

To have a wedding invitation as a Fridge Magnet is a great idea, and it will be sentimental to see this refrigerator magnet in the family and friends, even long after their wedding.

2) It is also an excellent wedding favor. Wedding favors are little gifts given by the bride / groom as a thank you to all customers by being part of your special moment. Traditionally, almonds or chocolates to be delivered, wrapped or boxed network. But the trend is much more elegant and stylish, custom refrigerator magnets to give as wedding favors.

Here are some ideas on how it might be:

• You can create your own wedding Fridge Magnets online with a simple photo-editing program. There are also many online stores to help with the creation and printing.

• You can have a simple "thank you" message in a decorative script with an appropriate wedding photo and the names of the bride / groom with the date.

• It can also be a magnet with only a photograph of the bridge / groom with a "Thank You" message

• "Thank you" message can have an image that mixes with the theme of your wedding, for example if a wedding on the beach – sand, sea shells, if it is held in a garden – flowers or seats the garden, if the place was a castle – an image of a castle. Just be creative.

• Another new idea for the wedding magnet would be to have individual photographs of their wedding guests printed on magnets, along with "Thank you, and have sent them. This will have a more personal effect.

The creation of these magnets, either as a wedding invitation or wedding favor is an interesting exercise for the couple. There are many online stores that offer a range of ideas and services to help create these unique refrigerator magnets. This is a good opportunity to make your wedding an unforgettable event among family and friends, giving them a beautiful example of gratitude in the form of magnet wedding.

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Jan
31

Letting People Know You Have a Band For Hire

Posted by Steve R Jones

Making your band for hire is an excellent way to earn to begin with some useful pocket money or even a full time living depending on how popular you become with your clients. It is also great for bands that become bored or stale from just rehearsing all the time.

So how do you go about getting those gigs? Like any business or organisation you need to promote yourself. The internet is quite good at helping you achieve this. Start by using the search engines and type something into the search box like, ‘band for hire’ and see what this yields.

Think about the people who might be looking for a band for hire. Weddings and birthdays always seem to need a band, but so might a corporate event, a club, or a nursing home, especially for the holidays. Once you know who is hiring, you now need to know how to get their attention.

Most bands that are for hire normally have their own website or myspace (or similar) account so that people can see what sort of band you are and listen to any music you may have put up.

Unfortunately a lot of people and organisations do not have access to the internet or the time to access it so you may have to do some ringing around and be prepared to have some brochures or flyers with information on the band and a CD or DVD showing you performing some of your songs.

Have you also considered using an agent? They do take a percentage of your earning but it may be worth it if they bring your band in gigs.

When becoming a band for hire, you have to consider whether you are a local band only, or will you go to other cities and states? Being able to travel can give you more opportunities, and more money.

The kind of gigs you do will also have an affect on what your band can expect to be paid. Local gigs in pubs will attract the smallest form of revenue but the upside is they provide a good opportunity for any band to test out new songs and are better in some respects than rehearsing as musicians like to play as much as possible.

A good band for hire will always seriously consider traveling further afield, particularly when the money offered is good. It’s makes more sense to play to a bigger venue than in a small pub, not only for the better money, but to get your music heard by more people and to get your band known.

Musician Steve R Jones is a writer for the http://www.souldesire.co.uk website. finding a specialist Band For Hire will make all the difference to the success of your event. Find out more about finding an amazing Band For Hire from this site.

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Jan
31

Hindu Wedding

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Talk about hindu weddings ,and the first thing that comes in to mind is the joy, charm, rituals and colourful ceremonies that extend for several days. The  flamboyance and charm that is seen in hindu weddings is unparalleled and unmatched.Right from wedding attire to gifts, wedding venue to food , cards to accessories everything is a pefect display of grandeur . 

Hindus attach a lot of importance with the wedding ceremonies . The ceremonies start days before the actual wedding day and last for many days after the wedding takes place.The pre-wedding ceremonies include enagagement where the groom’s relatives are invited to bride’s place and the lagna patra is written .Then comes the big day ‘wedding day’ followed by bride’s welcome to the groom’s place often called reception . others like mehndi, geet sangeet are few other very important and enjoyable ceremonies . Unlike the western marriages , hindu marriages are much more celebrated and talked about . One of the reason being ,that marriage is a good time when all family members, relatives and friends irrespective of physical or emotional distances get together  for a common goal, wedding. They share their happiness together and enhance the beauty of the occasion by contributing in various ways like dancing and singing.

Hindu weddings are a perfect example of extravagance and flamboyance. From the heavily embellished and much too expensive attire and accessories of the bride and groom to the exotic wedding venues everything demands lot of money and resources. The preparation of a wedding is also a very challenging task. It involves everything from booking the wedding venue to arranging caterers plus the decoration, cards distribution and the list of tasks goes on , Therefore the preparation starts months before the wedding. But at the end of the day its worth spending that much amount of time and resources on weddings as for hindus marriage is a once in a lifetime occasion. A lifetime bond made in heaven and performed here by us.

On the wedding day the bride and the groom exchange garlands called varmalas infront of all the people attending the ceremony.And then after much of celebration and naach gaana the time to take pheras come. Hindu wedding ceremonies are conducted in Sanskrit. These are called mantras which are uttered by the holy priest in the presence of the auspicious fire, one of the panchkarmas.The bride and the groom are then asked to take saat phere around the holy fire. After completing pheras , bride and groom seek blessings from the god then the priest and then the parents. And then comes the time of “vidaai”, when the bride finally leaves her parents house for her husband and in laws .This is the only time when the entire happiness and cheerfulness in the environment turns a little gloomy. But it is just a momentary emotional outburst and ultimately everyone from both the sides blesses the holy bond and enjoy and celebrate their happiness.

 

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