Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! Are you ready to write your own personal wedding vows? There are several things to consider before you write the language that ties you together for eternity. If you want to write the most magical message of love, there are a few things you need to know before you begin. The first thing to find out if you follow a religion is if your religion binds you to any strict customs as to what you can and cannot say during a wedding ceremony. Once you find out, and you are given the go ahead, then take your pens and paper and get ready to write your wedding vows for your special wedding day moment!
Examine your Motivation
What commitments have you made and kept? What commitments have you made and broken? When you make a commit to a vow, check your motivation are you doing it with full awareness? For example, when you meet with your wedding officiant, ask him or her to make you a copy of your wedding vows so you can read them thoroughly before you tie the knot. Be interested in knowing what you are committing to in these traditional vows. Marriage is a ceremony full of commitments! Do you honestly want to take a vow to “obey?” Do you truly want to commit to for better and “for worse” and “for sickness” and in health? Energetically charged words of what you don’t want may Read the rest of this entry »