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Handfast yourselves on individuality, marriage and family in the perfect wedding ceremony
If you chose to bind their hands in their handfasting ceremony not only gathering, and you have chosen a small 3-chain cable to represent their union, then you may want to consider the ways you want to represent the three chapters of their relationship. Some may choose different words of love to represent the ties that bind their hearts. Others may choose to celebrate the union of their minds, bodies and spirits.
Why not consider holding the various circles of relationship in which both you and your marriage will dwell.
- Individuality: Very often when people marry, they forget the person for the couple. For your marriage to thrive, each of you should be / remain strong individuals. It was his individuality, which attracted others. Now keep the magic! Continue to grow, continue to discover yourself and your partner. As the first tie wrap, a promise to focus on growing and ever more truly yourself. Promises the integrity of his individuality.
- Association: One of my boyfriends once said: Now I know what I am, I can accept to become a "we." If we maintain the notion of individuality, the development of a society with a real sense of common identity is a wonderful thing. This is not about merging and blending of personalities, but dipping. This is the process of discovering what you enjoy doing together, how to solve problems together, how to further deepen the concept of a couple in their life together. Association is not parallel lives, it is about sharing life. Promise yourself the joy of living together as wrapping the second loop around your hands.
- Family: This family is on three levels, their own emerging family, their birth families and the election and its extended community. Their marriage will prosper as finding a place for you on all levels. How many children do you have? But even before that, do you understand that in becoming partners to be chosen one of another family? How will interact with their families of origin, close and prolonged? How are asked to interact with you and others? And then how will participate in the general community where you live? This includes their circles of friends and the places where they live, work and worship. Your participation in a life outside your relationship wonderful challenge their marriage to grow. As they wrap their hands last time, promise each other the joy of participation in the world around you.
This is a profound and easily understandable way to tell your community what is important to you. The feel of this rope at the wrists will remind you how powerful love is. It's amazing that something so ephemeral that can bind so tightly. Making these promises and live in them. You will live well in one company from another person forever if you do!
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